July 15th, 2018

sad stick war

:(

I thought I was done having to worry about my LJ/DW friends leaving all of a sudden, but now valerie_inlove/[personal profile] jalerie either left both LJ and DW recently or moved to a new username. Which is sad because we got along so well. :(

If you're reading this and you're still on LJ/DW, can you let me know what your new username is? If you're not still on LJ/DW, I'll miss you. :'(
tree + b = mailbox

Question...

On LJ (and DW?), where exactly do I go to change it so that any logged-in user can send me a private message and not just friends?

For years, somehow I've had it where only friends can send me private messages and sometimes (dating back to as early as 2009 or 2010, I think) non-friends (that I wanted to allow private messages from) tell me that they wanted to send me private messages but my settings were too high - whenever that happens, I've always wanted to change it so any logged-in user can send me a private message, but I've never been able to find that option in the settings.

Can anyone help? Thanks.